Courage

When I woke up from the dream, this sentence comes into my mind: whether you like it or not, it's your choice.

Courage is like a muscle. We strengthen it by use.

Looks like courage needs to be practice before you can play it on hand. If you like it, you can always take the courage and act on it. Courage is the way to oppose your fear. It's the first step of change. 

Whether you like it or not, it's your choice. If you like it, you can choose to take the courage and act on it; otherwise, you can choose to put the courage aside and see things change but not you. Or perhaps, it will never change.